Parting With Lovers: How to Survive Tragedy
There is nothing more painful than separation from your beloved.After parting with a guy, we lose the desire to eat, sleep, and sometimes, and the desire to live on. At such moments, it seems that the world has collapsed, and there is no one more unhappy than you. Without tears, of course, not a single parting with your beloved, but you can not cry forever. If there is no hope for renewal of the relationship, try to start life anew.
Out of sight…
Even if before you leave the guy youdecided to stay with him friends, do not waste precious moments of your new life on communication with him. Believe me, it will not be easier for you if you constantly call up and correspond with a former guy. And to see you and is completely contraindicated. At least, the first time after parting.
Mistress of fate.
Just imagine how much freedom you haveprovided parting with a guy! Earlier, you planned your leisure time, in accordance with the interests of your young man. And now ... Now you can watch those movies that you like, visit those parties that you are interested in. And generally do whatever it takes.
Bound by one grief.
It is hard to experience such a tragedy alone,as parting with your beloved, but in some cases it seems that friends and family do not understand how really you feel bad. In the Internet you will find many people with a similar problem. They will gladly help you survive the sad moments, understanding you the best. Who knows, maybe you yourself can give someone valuable advice.
To the ears in work.
Parting with your loved one is a surge of emotion.It remains only to direct them in the right direction. Do not waste your energy on hysterics, better help an unsuccessful work colleague, ask the boss for an additional task, offer your help in organizing a corporate party. In general, do everything to make the time for sorrowful sighs remain as little as possible.
Change the situation.
Of course the best option is to go on a trip, butif this is not possible, you can go on a visit to relatives or friends who live in another city. Is there no such possibility? Look around, it may be time to reshuffle in your apartment or change the wallpaper in the bedroom, to more positive ones.
Parting with a loved one has led to the fact that you do notI'll have to buy a present for a guy on February 23 and for a birthday. So you need to urgently buy that expensive dress that you liked so much. And having made a new haircut, you will see that your beauty is worthy of the prince, and not of the one who threw you.
Step by step.
Plan your future, because now you are notis limited in its actions. Surely there are things that you have long wanted to do: get a second education, enroll in driving courses, learn to knit and so on. Such undertakings can be filled the whole next year. Do not forget to decide what you will start doing tomorrow.
Sport and physical education.
Doing sports is a great way to restorepeace of mind. And if parting with a loved one has led to the fact that you do not eat anything for a week, then fitness in combination with such a diet will lead to stunning results.
Give your love ...
If you broke up with a guy, get a kitten,a puppy, a fish or just a flower in a pot. They will sincerely respond to your love. A sense of responsibility for those who have tamed, will bring your thoughts in order.
Whoever like friends will understand and regret the difficultminute. They will remind you what you are good, kind, beautiful and in general, the most - the best. Often meet with close people. And if possible, make new acquaintances. But do not rush to start a serious relationship. After all, they need to start from scratch, not from despair and frustration.
Believe in the best.
When a loved one leaves, it seems that they deprived you of the opportunity to breathe. But know that even the most intense pain passes, giving way to new joys. And in your life everything will be much better than now.