How to take a married man?
Married men can meet for yearstheir mistresses, to promise that soon "definitively determined", they will talk with their wife, that you will definitely be happy together. But no concrete steps are taken to change their own family status. Someone drops their hands and parted with their beloved, and someone continues to fight to the end for their happiness, and constantly comes up with more and more ways how to lead a married man.
What you need to know
What you need to do to your effortswere crowned with success? First of all, it is worthwhile to figure out what he lacks in his own family, what he is trying to find in relations on the side? For example, if he is tired of domestic scandals, then it's unlikely that you will change the situation in your favor if you start to press on him and demand a quick divorce, make hysterics and scandals, take offense or remain silent. In order for a man to want to stay, he should be with you well. Much better than in the old family. To change one scandalous person to another he hardly wants.
Not all men like to discuss withmistresses of their wives. If your man is ready to shake your family clothes before you, with the ecstasy of discussing all the shortcomings of the second half, not disdaining and intimate details, then hardly such a copy is worthy of your efforts. If a man asks questions about his family to keep silent, try to talk him. Act very delicately and gradually. Why is this necessary? In order to make the most accurate portrait of his rival, as they say, the enemy must know in person. To understand how to take a married man, you need to clearly know what attracts him to family life, what is dear to him, and what, on the contrary, repels.
What should and should not be done
- Having determined what irritates your chosen one in histhe current wife, it will be easier for you to adjust your own behavior, get rid of unacceptable habits and disguise unpleasant traits of character.
- For example, your man is irritated by untidinesswife in home clothes, then you must try to always be in shape. If he takes offense at his wife because she has scattered a mess at home and does not cook dinner for him, then you must keep your apartment in perfect order and always prepare for his arrival a delicious homemade meal.
- Let him take care of you, participate in yourslife, ask for help and do not forget to thank for it. The more he puts in you (including feelings and emotions), the harder it will be to abandon you.
- Know how to listen to it. Every man needs to be understood. Discuss with him his affairs, problems, hobbies. If he wants to share something with you, never wave it aside. After all, in order that a person wants to constantly be around, he must have full confidence in you, feel with you a spiritual kinship, know that he will always be supported and understood.
And finally, a few tips on what you do not need to do if you want to take a married man.
- Do not blackmail him with your ownpregnancy: neither the present nor, even more so, invented. So you're probably just pushing it away. Men are arranged differently, and he will perceive the news of your pregnancy as a desire to drive him into a desperate situation.
- Do not insist on an immediate decision on divorce. But you can tell him how you love him, and how hard it is for you to be in a similar situation.
- It should not in any case be to his wife,talk about your relationship, try to establish contact with her and honestly divide the man. He is already feeling guilty, and in the case of a direct collision, it is likely that he will go over to the side of the "offended". Not to mention the fact that such a situation for him is simply insulting.
- Do not try to remake it, do not impose it on himyour tastes, do not criticize it. If you categorically do not like something in it, then it makes sense to find yourself another man, and not remake for yourself this.